ENFP Relationship: My Interpretation

When I was 18 I was thinking similar. Getting attracted to unhealthy sad people or thriving for unpredictability or mystery. Trying to cheer up everyone regardless of my inner mood. It just makes a huge gap between my true self and my outer self. But I realized that I was wrong, now I need healthy, kind and intelligent people with healthy communication, who want to discover my true self and willing to share their true self. Throughout the years I cut all of the unhealthy friendships. my job is not cheering up everyone, I'm not chocolate, I still enjoy to be needed and make people happy and help them but also I learned that everyone has their own life journey and it doesn't hurt to leave people alone sometimes.

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