Engaged 27M in Long Dist Relationship with 26F for 3 years - My Heart is Wandering Severely. Should I Get Out or Can I Fix?

I stayed with someone who fits her description except she was very into sex and passionate but I never truly felt a strong enough chemistry for some reason - as you said "a bit of a chore" similar feeling.

I stayed with her as my heart wandered frequently for 8 years (3 engaged) I had many opportunities of course I didn't engage in, several would have been very interesting for sure, but I couldn't cheat on the sweet vanilla girl.

Sadly after 8 years she wanted more, at that point I was resigned to staying with her, long story we broke up, it was sad and tough, but she's doing great now and has a husband and kid, I'm single and bleh whatever so, lesson is, I should have ended it the first year after a couple of honeymoon months - we'd all have saved some years and been better off.

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