If I pat a cat, and you having an emotional response to it, thinking its good or bad, did you control that emotional response originally? Its not about you, its about the cat. Why did you emote to something not related to you? Because you are higher in agreeableness and you felt externally towards the Other at the cat. Conforming, means to put the Other above the Self. Whether you like it or not, your personality affects your daily life, we just fail to analyse it generally.

All humans are identical at core, then flower out into variables. We all have tongue, eyes, taste, etc. But how we taste is varied, how much colour we see are varied. But at core, we are all built the same under the same core DNA biology - some have some parts turned on or off but at core its the same.

"I do what I want" is the stupidest thing I have ever read. Really concentrate using Ni, convince yourself you want to bomb a building... then try and go do it. You will find pretty quick that you can't because society has conforming.

ALL HUMANS conform. Some just conform more than others. The conforming of Fe is different to the conforming of Ni as an example. Ni is conforming Intuition into a legible box rather than an illegible mess like Ne. It is conforming it to a use. I think your lack of knowledge of the word conform is the issue here. You must be young and think to conform means to listen to your parents or something, very odd.

Please stop typing mate.