You’re clearly a teenager at most, so imma give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you just don’t really get adult relationships.

They’re not “besties”, they’re in-laws that are friends and coworkers. Trisha and Ethan both have separate (VERY busy) lives, and we don’t see all of it. They’ve talked about having dinners together and hanging out outside of the podcast, just because we don’t see it doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen, they probably just want to live in the moment. Not everything has to be public, and what you have in mind is very vlog-squad-esque, I’m sure Trisha isn’t itching for that.

If he doesn’t want to be on Trisha’s channel, that’s his and Trisha’s business. Keep in mind, Trisha is a co-host on the podcast, not a guest. She gets paid for her time on the show and it’s a coordinated, scheduled arrangement. They’re grown ass people and what they do is their business, it’s very presumptuous to speak for Trisha and act like you know what they do or don’t do and what they should or shouldn’t be doing. Adults (especially those that run businesses and have children) don’t hang out all the time and vlog with their “bestie”.