You see my old codger.. there's a difference between smiling and nodding to everything a woman says and actually being a nice person. When people say "be nice" to women. They don't mean be their slaves. They mean be polite and kind. Even a bit cheeky. Doesn't mean you don't tell a dirty joke or have a little naughty gossip but it does mean "don't be a dick".

Many people think that being a dick to women will make women want them from the false assumption that "all the jock boys in school treat women like shit". If you look like a fucking calvin klein model then yes you can treat women like crap and they'll not care as much but they're vulnerable needy women.

Any grown up independent woman who thinks for herself isn't gonna tolerate being treat like crap. You get me, sunshine?