Evening random discussion - Mar 06, 2022

A lot of my colleagues are asking me about my romantic relationship, even one of them saying na wag kana magpalayo layo may malapit naman dito, even my cousins too are asking about my romantic relationship.

The thing is I only allow my self to have one, once I have a job para at least may ipapakita ko na capable ako mag earn ng money and may pera pang date or libot, or pundar ng assets (very traditional ang family namin lol kaya napulot ko to) and pag stable na ako sa ibang bagay. I also hate the idea na ang parents mo ang gumagastos sa date/regalo niyo ng partner mo.

If I opt with the "malapit lapit lang (within our circle)", ang concerning issue is minor ang iba (17 y/o) sa circle namin and its a no no for me kasi 21 na ako lol. 5 years gap is fine, pero underage pa yung iba kaya no. May nasa legal age naman pero busy sila sa acads so pass muna sila.

One of my cousin said to me na huwag ko daw masyadong paghintayin yung sarili ko. Bata pa daw ako and I'm in a phase to explore and to experience naman daw, compare daw sa mga bigla nalang nagasawa.

/r/Philippines Thread