Have you ever decided not to go out with someone you found attractive/likeable? Why?

She described herself as the victim in all of her past relationships and blamed all of her exes.

I thought she was cute, and we seemed to get along well with each other. She also admitted to having feelings for me, but having just gotten out of a relationship with someone who refused to acknowledge her faults, I was determined not to make the same mistake of getting into a relationship with someone with a victim mentality.

I turned her down, which “expectedly” led her to becoming infuriated, but I met my current girlfriend who has no victim mentality, and we’ve been together for 4 years, ever since.

The girl I rejected got into multiple relationships ever since, and she accused each of her new bfs of being abusive.

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