3. Have you ever felt that you were not good enough, exciting enough etc for a SO- ...

Have you ever felt that you were not good enough, exciting enough etc for a SO- and if so- how did you handle that?

In February we had a fight and it was one of the worst one's we've had. We made up and all was well, or so I thought.

He just came to visit me and he was acting strange (hiding the screen from me at all angles, even if I wasn't looking, etc.) so I snooped in his phone and saw that he was talking to some girl he had a crush on a few years ago. Apparently right after we had made up, he told the girl that he always wondered what it would have been like to date her and he wishes they could have slept together and did things outside of work and shortly before that (I can't remember the date now), he brought up that he had a crush on her and never asked her out cause she said she had a boyfriend.

I was crushed. Absolutely crushed. The first thought that came to mind was, "I'm not good enough for him either".

I'm still processing it all and I want to forgive him. He didn't say anything flirty with her again and he was really apologetic. But I just can't stop thinking about it and I don't know anymore.

I'm just getting through it each day. I miss him so much, but I'm so angry. (This just happened on Easter Sunday).

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