If you're doing distance, make sure she's the right one man, it sucks when Jody gets her. My high school sweetheart, who is the most decent person I've ever met in my life, Jodi'ed me about 2 years ago, and I moved on, but it still gets me when I think about it. I'm not trying to put stuff on your head, but I never thought that it would happen to me, and it did. Don't get me wrong, there are wonderful woman out there who are loyal through it all, and maybe your girl is one of those, but just be careful and listen to your gut. I feel like a piece of shit saying all of this, but I just want to make you aware of what many of has gone through due to joining the service and doing distance.