Every single friend I ever have my boyfriend accuses me of cheating and makes me block them

If you're looking for another comment that says, "you should leave him because he's controlling" then this one isn't for you and I request you to leave it here. I believe this can be worked on overtime and just hear me out without judging, please.

So what I want to add to this thread is that he is definitely controlling but I won't suggest saying that you should leave him if you genuinely have feelings for your boyfriend. Now how can you deal with him? because if you want to stay happy 'together' then you both should grow together. I want you to realize that there is a way of working on this, there is a way of securing the insecurities by proving that you both are on the same team reading the same page. What this means is that you show him how you both are working towards remaining together and that there is no third party involved in a "2 love bird's house". This controlling behaviour is toxic enough but leaving him would be your choice, although the core of this action is very small and something so small that is just a mindset that could be broken by just shaking it off, then it doesn't have to only be dealt with a breakup. It is a very 'red pilled' idea of a guy and a girl is not available to each other by just being friends and that there's always more to it than that. Although there are also many guys who undermine a girl's relationship or 'hang around' as friends just waiting for that girl to break up with her bf so that he could be with her.

Your bf is concerned for you but not in a good way. You are with him because it's your choice and remaining with him even after finding yourself 100 guy friends, yet only sticking with him is solely upon 'you' and not any of his problem. You will have to explain to him that no matter which guy steps in (and even if you two breakup) the reason won't be because the other guy you are 'friends' with is just 'better' than your current bf. Show him why you are bonded to him, you two are a team and his problem is a part of yours too. It could just be solved with reassurance from your side but surely it gets exhausting and he will need to understand your view on it as well. Hope this sparks the idea of what I tried to say here. Good luck to you two on the years to come!! <3

Break up if you want to because a relationship is a 50% of your stakes as well. Respect yourself if the problem hurts your mental stability. Work on it if it is solvable.

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