Every social feature in XIV is enabling stalking and harassment and I think this should be a bigger deal.

Just ignore them? If you’ve blacklisted them, you can’t see their chat. And I’m sorry, but I have a hard time believing people have EVER been queued into a dungeon/raid with an abuser that wasn’t already on a party with them. I’ve found myself queued into a party with somebody I knew ONCE, and I’ve been playing since the launch of ARR.

The real change I can support is you being removed from their friend list if you remove them from yours. I didn’t know that’s a thing, and that should totally not happen.

But other than that, ignore them and move on. If they can’t talk to you, and if you aren’t inviting them to parties, then the only thing that can do is throw away their live by following you around.

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