Ex found 11 year old actress hot

(Female opinion) Personally, I don't think it's sexualization of a child, per say. She is an extremely attractive woman now and she was gorgeous as a young lady too. That movie is awesome and there is a level of admiration for her character. I used to dress like her, being the same age during those years and that sort of style. I'm not sure calling her "hot" would be my choice of words these days as an adult, given I've grown up in the real world and understand that sort of thing... But Natalie Portman and I are the same age. I would have found her attractive then and I find her still attractive today. It's not that I see her as a child in the film and am attracted to her due to age. Does that make sense?

I think of it sort of like you're an adult dating another adult and seeing pictures of them as a teenager and saying you would have totally dated them back then because they were attractive then too. It's not that you're attracted to the teen in the photo, you're attracted to what once was that you also used to be. I hope that makes sense. Running on fumes and the world's shittiest cup of office coffee trying to wake up.

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