Ex has a new boyfriend

Ok It was basically a one liner that said something about over-nights were not allowed ( meaning when she had the kids / or I did,,, we couldn’t have a gf/bf staying overnight ) It made sense since our kids were in grade school at the time (impressionable) and we basically had split custody. Therefore plenty of opportunity for sleepovers when you didn’t have the kids at your place. The court ordered psych evals on everyone and the Doc. agreed it would be best for the children to not expose them to undue trauma which that activity could introduce. Anyway, abt a month or so after the divorce was final she went on a “divorce celebration “cruise with her new bf at the time and our kids. Totally disregarded the intent of the cohabitation note in the decree. I was in debt from the attorney fees and basically supporting her still and trying to start anew on my on... I didn’t take any action. Divorce is hell on everyone. The best to you my friend!

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