wife is Muslim

agreement to keep religion out of our kids life.

Sorry to break it to u buddy, but either she's mostly agnostic as well or that agreement was BS. Islam is one of those borderline-cult religions and everyone, literally everyone, is expected encouraged and in some cases mandated to indoctrinate their children into it as well. The ideology doesn't see non-Muslim as a state of being, it takes the stance of everyone's a Muslim and it's just some people don't find Islam again in life and therefore are gonna rot in hell for all eternity. Better start those forced conversions to keep the poor children from being burned forever by our beloved god.

Source: exmuslim.