Explain this incels

After having spent time in this subreddit. Im pretty convinced that most of you guys have deep-seated emotional issues. You need to sort out, like self-loathing, feelings of hopelessness, depression, inferiority complex, and isolation. I don't think you guys are ugly or worthless. While this doesnt mean attractive men don't have an advantage when it comes to dating, towards most ment of equvalient social and economic status. I think you guys should work more towards self-fullfillment. You will be doing alot better with everything, including women. I dont even know what the rational point is with hyperfocusing on the fact that chads are succesful with internet dating, or dating in general. You arent chad, and you dont have to compete with with him. So, what, you should focus on improving your own trajectory, instead of putting yourselves down for not having a practicular set of traits, that many people don't have, but are still sucessful. Therre are always going to be people who are better looking, have bigger dicks, are smarter, more savy, better dressed, have more money, or more sucess than yourself. Gawking on them and basing your identity on being inferior to them, is like shooting yourself in the foot. You will never feel content.

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