Expressing my feelings... Going through a painful life change

Thank you for your comments I truly appreciate it. We’re still ironing out details l, we bought a house together four years ago and I just started grad school which complicates things.

Both of us agree we need to work on ourselves, I know neither of us are looking for a new relationship anytime soon since we’ve been together since we were 19 we never really got that chance to be adults alone. At this point were open to revisiting getting back together if there is an interest on both sides after he’s in a better place mental health wise. That being said no one being pressured to wait for the other.

I’ve grown so much as a person from our relationship so I don’t regret anything and it’s made me who I am today.

It’s going to be a hard transition for sure and I am grateful for the kind comments here while it’s still too murky to talk with in my social group. My therapist had a opening Friday so I’ll also get a chance to talk through it there too which is good.

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