F (21) never had a real bf b4 but have been seeing this guy for 2 months. happened really fast. We don’t say I love you or anything but we spend ALOT of time together. Idk how relationships work. I’m not sure if I’m asking for too much or being overly sensitive or if hes actually neglecting my needs

Well like, we live at the same apartment complex. He stays over all the time. Like he has a toothbrush here and clothes and a nightstand. He basically sleeps over almost every night. I always hated sleeping with another person and loved sleeping alone but now with him I can’t sleep alone lol the thing is he’s here all the time and we have a class together and he gets on my nerves when he’s here but when he’s gone I miss him! It’s like too early for him to be this comfortable. We like crashed super hard into this relationship and I want to be taken out and dated more which doesn’t necessarily mean spending money cause I know he’s a college student and everything but idk take me on adventuress. He cooks for me, and always drives me to class and is always very loyal and understanding and supportive of me. He gets how I think too, That was one of the things that first attracted me to him I saw how well he treated his friends. But he makes these jokes that I know are jokes but they still piss me off. And when we are around friends he’s really against PDA. Sometimes I feel like he looks at me like a sack of potatoes. He’s ALWAYS on his phone now. He doesn’t really foreplay and when he does want to fuck he goes straight to the point and can never cum. (Oh god this sounds really bad writing this out)

Sometimes I feel like he is kind of indifferent about having sex with me. (I am pretty hot if you scroll down far enough you can see some GW pics) and I try hard. Part of me thinks I’m disillusioned that a guy should worship the ground I walk on and want to bring me gifts just because and listen to me. We laugh together. He makes me laugh a lot. But sometimes he says jokes that I think are mean and I told him and he was super sorry but now I’m wondering if I’m being overly sensitive. And then my brain goes into overdrive and I wonder if he even likes me at all or is just trying to get something from me. It’s way too early for me to feel taken for granted but am I not taken for granted and just asking for to much? Because honestly when I need him he’s there and idk...I feel like I might be asking for too much but I don’t think I am. But other times I feel like “he’s crazy about you he’s just his own person with his own quirks” idk this sounds reallly bad. We went into this too fast.

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