(f) How I summarize my sexual attraction to men and women: Id like to do to women what I like men doing to me

I mentioned those things because it's part of my human struggle to want to integrate different aspects of my personality/sexuality. I'm just sharing my reality. I love having a male figure in my life and want a romantic relationship with one. You're interpreting it through your own ideology and dismissing a very real and common desire. Not having it doesn't mean it isn't real. I don't think every person must want it. That whole man/boy love thing she talked about is from the 90s and yeah very controversial/unethical. If you read her essays she is very clear about rape being a horrible thing. I'm not gonna write paragraphs defending Paglia, I don't agree with everything she's ever said or every view she has. But I think she's brilliant and learnt a whole bunch of art history/philosophy/feminism/sexuality from her. Sorry you don't feel like sharing, take care.

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