You should go to a munch or a rope class, I'm sure they'd love to have you there even if you don't want to learn to use rope yourself so much but want to be tied up. You'd probably also meet a decent number of interesting like minded individuals, it's worth going to a munch even if it's only once to see what it's like. They also have women only meets, young people only, poly, etc. etc. so you can likely find something you'd find enjoyable/feel comfortable with.

I need to take a few rope classes to improve, but I prefer toys like spreader bars, tape, etc. for the most part anyways mostly due to ease of use and comfort. In my experience most women cum like crazy being gagged with a ball gag, blindfolded, legs and arms restrained in a spreader bar, and a magic wand on their clit while getting fucked. It's a favorite of mine, orgasm torture is fun.