This. I never talk about this and will probably delete this comment but I dated a 27 year old when I was 19. We were together for two years and I thought I was happy but as soon as I got out I realized I wasn’t. I regret that relationship to this day and I’m 32 (and love my current partner to bits). I try to forgive myself though because I was only 19. He’s the one who should have known better. I lacked relationship experience and didn’t know what was normal or not. He wanted to get married and have kids. After I ended things with him, he showed his true colors and became a monster. He raped a friend’s 16 year old sister. Since then he’s gotten married to some other girl younger than him and has daughters. When I was 19 I thought I wanted kids but I’m glad I didn’t follow that path because in my mid 20s I decided I didn’t want kids. Or to get married, really. Now my partner and I have a cat and dog.

Anyway…Someone in their late 20s should not be interested in dating a teenager. It means they are immature for their age at best and predatory at worst. I know you don’t want to hear it but after what I went through, I have to say it. If you plan to stay with him through college or settle down this early, be prepared to miss out on a lot. You might regret this as you enter your 20s and what you want in life changes. You should be out there kissing girls (or whoever you want), not in a serious relationship with this guy. Sorry.