F29 can't live with the fact my husband M30 won't touch me or look at me sexually

I don't constantly push him about it. I leave the ball in his court. I have never initiated since realising something is wrong. He took 3 years to get to a doctor. Melodrama? If I was melodramatic I'd be in his face right now not on here looking for advice.

Thats the problem I've noticed online the person on the other side NO ONE is willing to understand exactly how they feel. Every body sides the person with the erectile dysfunction. I am trying to be understanding towards his condition which is why I cry myself to sleep at night. Those times I cried to him was before we both realised what was wrong. Way before the ED got diagnosed. For a person who has never experienced it its natural to blame yourself and think you're the problem and wait he did say I was the problem. Instead of owning up to what he had he decided to destory my self confidence with it. Yet you seem to be excusing his behaviour. You sound like a headache.

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