I [F30s] went into crazy mode when my friends [30s M/F] stopped me from leaving their house. I'm not sure what to do. [Non-romantic]

For someone who doesn't know me --or anything about me-- you've certainly come to some pretty horrific conclusions.

You keep bringing up mental illness but you don't need to have a history of mental illness or even be mentally ill to be "acting crazy"

Let me get this straight. You imply that I'm crazy and that the situation was just like "in the hospital where crazy people have to be restrained"... And when I say that I don't have a history of mental illness, you're just going to say" oh, well you were still probably crazy enough"..?

but you still want everyone to tell you that you're justified in reacting the way you did,

Well, first of all, I did some reading and got some second opinions, and I don't require your approval, you're just simply wrong.

and you've reacted negatively to the comments that have not completely supported you and absolved you of blame.

Where? The only things I've reacted negatively to are when someone implied/said something that wasn't true.

I didn't say you threw someone down the stairs, I said you almost threw someone down the stairs, which is what I would think THEY thought even if in YOUR mind you just somehow "I almost knocked E down the stairs."

OK. So throwing implies a grabbing and throwing motion. Knocked means that I knocked into her. One is accurate, one is not. One is intentional, one is not. So no... Bumping into someone is not the same as bodily trying to launch them down a flight of stairs.

Just look at how you even wrote that sentence and how you're quick to give the excuse that it was because you were trying to escape.

It's not an excuse, it's just true. Anytime I broke free of K, I was trying to get away.

Look, even though you claim you were only trying to escape, IF you actually did knock someone down the stairs and caused them to be injured, how would you feel about that? How do you think that person's bf/gf might feel about that? I'm trying to show you their perspective and you just aren't getting it.

Yea, but the problem is that no one went down the stairs. So you're scenario is irrelevant.

You also broke a lamp, I guess also in your attempt to escape - how, exactly does that happen? We don't know, because YOU said I really don't remember the details

No. Because that's what E told me. But do go on with your conclusion jumping (she's also the one that said I almost knocked her down the stairs).

You don't remember how you almost knocked someone down the stairs or broke a lamp, but I'm guessing they would be able to say someone about that...how am I making stuff up by pointing that out?

Because you're simply playing a what if game based on nothing. You're not pointing anything out, you're just saying "that could've happened, we don't know"... Except I do. I talked to E after. That's how I know the things that I didn't remember clearly.

I don't think K was right either but I don't think the fault is necessarily 50/50

Right. So after all of the implying that I'm crazy... And lying... And just generally a crap human, you think that saying "oh, yea, K was kinda shitty for hurting you and cornering you and generally scaring the shit out of you"... will somehow add some rationality to your nonsense? No.

There were several points in this story too which show that you might not be very perceptive to what others are thinking of you, you even said yourself that you were thinking of marriage when the guy was thinking of ending the relationship. SOME cues or communication were obviously missed here unless this guy was that amazing of an actor.

LOL! Didn't think you could sink any lower... But you have surprised me. That actually almost made me laugh. That you figure throwing my breakup in my face would prove your point.

You are a terrible human. You should look in the mirror and ask yourself why you are so cruel.

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