[F4M] Your White Girl.. [N-word][filthy][interracial][lil country me] and wall of text.

Darling I never once said that someone could not be upset, never once. Our entire conversation is me trying to figure out what exactly it was that upset them and why it was upsetting to them. I am always open to have those kinds of conversations.

That one word was the only thing degrading to the other person in this audio, every last bit of the degradation and racism otherwise went to myself. It wasn't a fight. I never said they aren't entitled to their opinion, I said the exact opposite actually and asked to not be put into a racist box because I dropped the N-word then we moved on.

Black people who want to use that word on our own terms is a world away from someone else who uses it as a lark or as a degradation.

I don't understand how me trying to defend black people and saying that a racist slang doesn't define them is making me the bad person. I never said the term wasn't racist. I said that I was not a racist and because I dropped a word in a fantasy based audio that it did not make me a racist. I'm not speaking for other people, I am speaking for myself. If someone wants to come in and be like "hey miss I'm offended" I am completely okay with that I'm happy to talk it out. I'm not arguing who can say what and when is it okay to drop the N-word. Its common sense that its not a cool thing to do just like telling someone because they are white they are privileged, not fucking cool.

Its not fair to say that because someone is black it is expected of them to be okay with that term because not everyone wants to be associated with the word that was given to them out of degradation. Not everyone wants to be in a box. That was my argument. I meant nothing but good from it.

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