instgram is for one thing only: making other people jealous. View it as a game. Do what you can do. Flaunt your own shit. Who cares. Girls will do a photo 500 times to make it have just the right thing. Some send to retouchers, others use Facetune.
When they travel they may spend more time setting up the selfies and then dealing with social media feedback then they actually will doing shit where they are.
No model ever looks like she does in these photos (I do photography, I am part of the problem, as I can make her look so very good and you will never, ever know that I even touched the photo).
Side note: Photoshop is a lot like giving a good impression. If you are 100% positive then the brain refuses to accept this like the happy Matrix the machines scrapped. Probably why beta men hovering and giving only positive feedback get rejected by women as patently false.
The trick to a good retouch is to fix the glaring issues, leave smaller issues in place, and to know what is the difference between a fault in someone's face or body and what makes them an individual. They even knew this in the 50s when they were calling moles "beauty marks."
That flaw is something that gives character and stops this face I am working on from becoming an ever so more generic and forgettable doll.
One girl I have shot with has a crooked nose, and the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen in my life, and an otherwise perfect face and a smile that lights up a city block. Not only this, she is humble and wonderful. I couldn't ever figure that out until she showed me a photo from 3 years ago and she was about 175 pounds and trimmed herself down to 110-115 and she's about 5-5.
She had lived her whole life as a fat girl that men were not interested in and changed it around by the time her personality had developed. She can be a bit insecure now but she has none of the negative aspects of being hot forever and treating people as disposable. She's a nice fat girl still with fat girl personality problems in a trim nice package. Very interesting.
But anyway I would never fix her nose because it's a big part of who she is character wise. Change that and it fundamentally alters who the person is, it's not cleaning it up.
Faults are the salt and spice in a meal. As long as they are not the primary they do serve to make some interest for other people.
A guy who had to get in a fight one day because he got cornered and busted his hand but otherwise seems pretty OK and not violent and doesn't repeat this... this small fault is interesting. A guy who gets drunk every weekend and gets in fights, that is where the fault has become a primary character trait and bit warning sign. Some girls are attracted to that but those are not girls anyone should want to be with.