First off nice double post. You sound just like I would imagine a 30+ year old house wife would.

Now to your points. I said there was movie magic involved and obviously sex is not that clean nor perfect. You however, are missing my point that porn can teach you to enjoy sex better thorough technics that you would have otherwise never known.

You point out that multitudes of men have expressed that porn rekt their lives, I don't disagree. As with a women who uses a vibrator to much or a person that enjoys alcohol, Coca-Cola, fast food, or any other thing you can name too much. Moderation in all things is key to happiness, sexual pleasure is no different.

However I am advising to use porn much like million of humans through the ages have used say the Kama Sutra, as a why to learn how to be better at sex.

No with "fetishes" like anal or other sex acts of the nature, of course there is more involved and if you do part take in this then you know exactly what and why. Still doesn't mean anal scenes are fake and that there is nothing to learn concerning how to pleasure your partner anally.

If porn to sodas or ANTHING takes control of your life it's not going to end well, but that's not the porn, sodas, ETC's fault that is the partaker's.

Also 5 mins is not reality either, I haven't cum that quick since I was a teenager unless you are talking going weeks and weeks with out any then of course. Other wise the 15-20 mins that most porn scenes, or at least many, last is pretty accurate for me and the partners I have had. Even girls (most at least) don't like being ploughed for 60 mins st8, there is friction and so on that turns from pleasurable to painful.

You seem to have wither a very novice scene of real sex or a very crippled sex life in which to draw experience from.

Porn doesn't have to be a solo thing watch it with your partner and learn together even, if that makes it easier for you. However don't stunt someone else's sexual growth because of your own demons.