Thanks for responding. I agree with you and I can't word my thoughts as well as you.

Just one minor point I keep in mind in that sub: anyone posting there like that is likely to have been really frustrated with people around them because well some people are too judgemental. If writing a few bad things online about them in a community that doesn't tell them they're being selfish and not doing the right thing etc helps them stick with their choices, I say I can tolerate a few "crotch goblins" or "breeders".

I already do the stupid dog-speak because the dog pics and vids are amazing. I wish it wasn't there in the first place but I can live with them letting out their frustration however they like on that sub.