I have fallen in love with a man 30 years older than me.

I think because I’ve been hesitant to because I wanted to make sure that he wasn’t trying to only have sex with me. We discussed it maybe a week or two after we met because I brought it up & told him that I am not looking for someone who just wants to have sex. He agreed & said he would wait for whenever I felt I was ready & he hasn’t mentioned it since.

I would say we want the same things out of life. We have good conversations. We talk daily. I even feel weird when we don’t get to talk to each other or see each other. I am honestly afraid of how the situation could turn out, but I can’t lie & say that I don’t care about him a lot.

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