Family friend [36M] keeps trying to cheat on his fiancé [31F] with me [19F] what action should I take?

Like my mother said, if I do say anything it’ll literally ruin the relationship between my family and his and they might still stay together and forgive each other as he could be viewed as a status symbol. I’ll be known as that girl and it’s humiliating enough as it is.

It’s either me and the family not being torn to shreds OR her. Her family would be the type to go for blood and ruin him AND his family. I’m sorry, but there has to be a sacrifice here. He will be found out in due time and hopefully by me threatening him he’ll stop.

You clearly don’t know what Chinese families are like and relationship dynamics. It’ll literally be a scandal and I’ll be on the negative side.

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