No, the fetish is giving money to a woman they personally perceive as more powerful than themselves

Yes, there are extreme forms of this fetish where people actually do want their Domme to make them live in squalor while she takes all their money. I do not participate in that level of this fetish, although I have had people contact me for it. THAT is taking advantage.

The above scenario and any other I feel comfortable participating in is the equivalent of them giving me the spare cash they have for their own extracurricular activities. Then getting off - along - at the thought of it: the act of them giving it to me, what I (might) buy with it, me wearing/using what I bought, etc.

Most people with the fetish like to watch me online (or IRL at a mall, etc.) shop and pick out a few items, then they send me the money to pay for it, and I sometimes send them a photo of me wearing like a pair of shoes or a dress they bought me.

I don’t consider that taking advantage of anyone. And quite frankly I don’t understand how it could be perceived that way either. It’s just like them going to a store and buying something, except they get off from it and I don’t even have to participate