Fat Girls Hide Their Ture Size

I know I'm late but this just happened to me and now I'm reading similar stories on Reddit. Not gonna lie, I'm pretty upset.

This chick was 150lbs heavier than I was expecting. Probably 100lbs heavier than me. I didn't even recognize her when she showed up. She walked up to me and I was still looking around like "where is my date?" We planned on hanging out for a couple hours and maybe going back to her place afterwards, but I noped the fuck out after 45 minutes. Made some shitty excuse and got the hell out of there.

I feel lied to. Like wtf do people who do that expect? "Sure, I'll just take the incredibly deceiving pictures of me so people will match with me... that won't go wrong when we actually meet." It's like they're just setting themselves up for disappointment. If they didn't hide the way they truly look they might get less matches, but at least they'd know those matches aren't going to nope the fuck out like I did when they show up to the first date. From now on I'm not liking anyone who doesn't have a full body picture.

And I see other comments about how "it's normal to pick your most flattering pictures" and sure, I agree, but there is a major difference between a good picture and a deceptive one. I'm a skinny guy and part of me has always wished I was a bit more muscular, but you don't see me posting deceptive pictures to make myself look bigger than I actually am. I want my matches to know what I actually look like so they're not disappointed when we meet. I choose pics that look good, but not pics that hide what I truly look like.

/r/Tinder Thread Parent