I had a girlfriend of 4 years cheat in me with a guy that was a part of her friend group that I had told her I felt like they were more than just friends. Texting a bit too much. One night I got too drunk playing poker with friends and she went to the bar after. I went home and to bed. She was mad at me and didn’t come home. The next day she broke up with me out of the blue. I was devastated. Moved out of our apartment, back to my parents. A few days later she texted me begging to meet up with her. I eventually gave in. I met her in a parking lot and as soon as I got in her car she started balling. She admitted to cheating on me that night with a random person at a party after the bar. I didn’t believe her and my gut told me she was lying. I could tell. I convinced her to tell me who it really was that she cheated on me with and sure enough it was that guy. My gut was right. I got back with her and told her i never want to see him again. We lasted a year longer and broke up for good. You can’t get over that truly. A couple months after we broke up she was with a new guy and posting it all over Facebook. Married a year later. After 5 years of dating and having two cats together and an apartment. Been broken up for 9 years. I have the cats and will take good care of them till they die. That’s what you do for pets you love. She’s contacted me a couple times through the years on Facebook messenger. Last time she apologized for the way things ended and really wanted to know how the cat were. Said she misses my brother and parents. I’ve struggled like crazy. But done pretty well for myself. I’m working on it and myself. That is all