Cool you being older brings nothing to the table so go and boast about that little marble somewhere else where someone will give a shit about it. And I never said that younger people don't feel pain or it ever should be ignored. Quite the opposite the sooner the issues of younger people are resolved the better. But if you really think that caressing someone who isn't able to see anything outside of someone else is a good idea then you're wrong. That's the cold dose of reality but if you can't love yourself and have your own reasons to push on forward then you really can't love others. Maybe my negligence is a bit out of place but that kid needs help that none of us can provide and caressing their issues isn't the right way.