pluck it or not bro just don't listen to anybody's shit about it, not even your mom's. i even shave my legs for sports and yeah that shit's girly as fuck but it helps and i think it looks okay, so even when some kid points it out or tries to make fun of me, i know they're just trying to get some reaction out of me thinking they're better than me, I don't let em win that battle. you can do the same.

as far as social stuff goes, yeah it really does help if you're attractive, i know some nerdy ass minecraft loving weirdo kids that get away with being weird because they're good at being social and i love em all to death - same goes for myself. really you can't get away with anything in that area without constant practice, just be friendly, outgoing, not too weird if you're not hot af, and just confident, don't be afraid and you'll get the practice you need.

also pretty much everything about your body is adjustable, i used to be skinny as fuck so i gained weight, i went too far so i started lifting and doing sports and i lost weight. oh yeah lifting is just all around great, i think the main point in my life that i stopped being a social retard weird bitch boy is when i started lifting. do it bro have some discipline.