“Just stop, man” is pretty unhelpful advice, though. And I don’t think you meant to come across as judge-y but it doesn’t sound very kind either.

OP literally expressed that they don’t love it. That’s like telling someone with anxiety “Just don’t think about it! Easy!”

The “point” of a game is to just play it in a way that works for you. Responses like yours I think are why OP is struggling to just accept that every way is a valid way to play.

Again I don’t know if you meant to, but shaming how someone plays a game just because it’s different than your idea isn’t a great way to go about it.

Your way of fun is valid! And great! But so is OP’s.