I don't find either men or women attractive in any kind of sexual way. I can recognize if they are conventionally attractive by societies standards, but it doesn't create any sense of desire in myself towards them. I sometimes admire people for aspects of their character and personality, perhaps their style, but I don't think that is the same as sexual attraction. I'm not really sure which gender to pursue any kind of relationship with and basically just go on who's attracted to me and whether I could see myself doing life with them perhaps, which in my case is 99% men that are interested, and so far most of them have been to selfishly obsessed with sex to get to a point where I can figure out what their character is like. I'm not sure where it leaves you. Maybe just take things on a case by case basis and don't worry about seeking out a specific gender. Dating a women would worry me that she might transpose male orientated roles onto me. Dating a man I'd be worried his interested is rooted in homosexuality or bisexuality, so again the risk of being though of as male in some kind of way. Pretty much stuffed whichever way you go. I just stay single.