I can't exactly do that on Tinder, but if I could, I would. You used to be able to do it on CL. You can do it on Reddit. If I find partners based on my sexual needs is that wrong?

I'm not looking for a husband. I'm looking for certain connection. I make my needs clear from the start. I don't have time to waste confused or in drama. Understanding if you might be a sexual match before investing time helps break the ice when you do meet. The men I date are marriage material: doctors, lawyers, CEOs, English gentlemen; they are professional, educated, respectful, tall, athletic, well financed and fun. Because it's online, I don't compromise at all. I prefer the relationship be connected, yet casual because I'm not my best self in a monogamous relationship. It's too much to ask of one person to be everything I need, all the time. It's been a couple years I've been dating like this and I think it's showing me this contrast in how good it feels to be free and in the company of quality, versus mentally chained to mediocre. I do live in Manhattan and the dating pool is marked by more quality parnters and less exclusivity.