I feel so lost

Hey!

I feel like this method of one's relieving himself before sex to last longer works for a lot of men but it has nothing to do with the fact that he (your boyfriend) misunderstood it. Masturbation is not synonymous with watching porn. He is addicted and if he doesn't get help he is not going to stop.

I see that it is extremely draining for you and I don't see any solution for fixing this issue besides you giving him an ultimatum. Tell him that he needs to go therapy if he wants your relationship to continue.

Please, do not stay in a relationship that doesn't work for you. Don't let somebody hurt you continuously, you don't deserve this pain :(

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