Do you feel youll never meet somoene again?

Nope. And it’s meeting people in person.

Online dating can absolutely work, but being honest I’d say it works better when you don’t need it.

Focus on the social circle part if you can. It really is much much easier if you focus more on having platonic social in person stuff, than it is trying to jump start a relationship from nothing. Focus on the foundation. Do volunteer work, or a hobby that can get you out, anything. Make time for it. Have a life worth sharing that’ll survive a break up.

If you’re having no success, stuff like tindr is a time sink that can warp your ideas of date-ability, make time with yourself feel like rejection from nothing. Do something worth sharing, be someone who wants a date, not lives for it with every match being a potential one stop answer for loneliness.

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