Feeling Dejected | Need To Be Heard

You need to talk to her, and a lot more often. Her dad is family, but you are family too. If you want to make it less awkward maybe approach it by making it about the kids - tell her you don’t want tension and negative energy between you two to affect the livelihood of your children and they deserve to have two strong parents who love each other. And if that doesn’t sound like what your relationship has the potential to be, then maybe it’s an idea to start thinking about if you’d be happier separated.

Coming from a Mormon family, my parents got a divorce when I was pretty young. The church made the divorce such an ordeal and everyone made it so much worse. But anyways, I was alot happier when my parents were separated and I got to spend individual time with them both and knew they were both happier and didn’t have to deal with fighting and tension.

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