Feeling humiliated because I can't recognize boundaries

I feel like I have this problem too. I have learned to be extremely extremely uptight since I was very young. But I've done similar things to what you've mentioned. And it is everything from something like volume choice, all the way through stuff like cat diarrhea. I think other people would look at this like--cmon, you could have just not talked about cat diarrhea! But they don't see all the things you filtered out. All the topics you did err on the safe side on and never brought up. Sometimes unnecessarily, cutting out the good with the bad. I am not personally skeeved that easily, and I wouldn't mind myself hearing people talk about it. And I've had plenty of times in my life I've observed other people successfully bring up topics that are gross or taboo or something and it's entertaining.

It just sucks. I pick up on things throughout the years but I still struggle with this too.

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