Feeling like I'm not good enough for a relationship..

Man, this was frustrating to read.

I don't know where exactly you got this notion that you owe the world something, but it needs to stop. You are not a "low value" male, because such a thing does not exist.

The value you have as a person is ENTIRELY subjective. How other people see you is not based on a set of characteristics like income, what car you drive, what watch you're wearing etc. (unless they're an incredibly shallow person (((which is a very rare thing))) and aren't worth your time or mental energy anyway)

If you feel that you have low value, that is nothing but negative self talk, hopelessness and a warped worldview formed into one pathetic self image. It is false. It can be broken.

What is interesting to you, personally? Do you like drawing? Music? Dancing? Do you have strong, profound opinions on movies or any other media that you'd like to share? Pursue that thing, whatever it is. Because that is something you owe to yourself. The joy and happiness of doing what you love.

Fuck the world, you're only here once, so squeeze every last drop of joy or excitement out of life while you can, as long as it isnt hurting anybody.

And most importantly, love yourself. Because you can't just wait until someone else loves you, that shit needs to start with you.

/r/IncelExit Thread