Feeling like a maid more than a wife

I felt like that for years. Then when I slowed down because I literally burned the hell out I was told I didn't pull my weight and he did it all. Anytime I spoke about the unseen labor he told me he worked harder because he had a job. He wanted me to list what I did. He refused to read anything about the mental load women carry. He didn't care about my feelings of exhaustion or burnout. He did plenty around the house and then I was lazy for sitting around doing nothing even though I spent hours being a human jungle gym. I felt like he didn't see me as a person. I was just someone there to provide childcare and house cleaning duties. Once I failed to do that sufficiently the resentment set in. We can't win as women.

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