Feeling salty about no shows at my wedding

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"My bridesmaid was expecting a baby when she agreed to be my bridesmaid. During the time of my wedding the baby is around 3 months or so. Anyway, a week before my wedding after I got her outfits for the ceremony she told me she can't walk down the aisle cause she would have to feed her baby. I asked her if she could leave the baby with her parents who she lives with but she said no. I said that is fine. She said she would come to the reception without her baby (which is right after the ceremony and leave earlier to go home to her kid). The wedding day came and she never showed up. She didn't message me for two days after the wedding as to why? I even saw her liking Instagram pictures and stories which she posted on my wedding day. Yet she somehow couldn't make it. At this point I was beyond pissed so I blocked her. I spent probably around $240 for her and her husband's plates. Money aside I was hurt by the fact she did not even bother to notify me about the situation as to why she was coming. I understand if someone is sick but she did not let me know at all. Anyway since she realized I blocked her she sent me an angry message calling me cheap and a bad person for ending our 5 year relationship. She also said my marriage wont last cause I act this way and that I have no true friends. Anyway, I find the whole situation of her not showing up really distasteful. She also lives 10 mins drive from the wedding venue! Very disappointing. I know I got emotional and blocked her but how do I respond back to her Whatsapp text? Or not bother at all.

TL;DR BM did not show up to the wedding and is mad at me."

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