Feeling shamed for being pregnant outside of my imminent marriage - guidance appreciated

Maybe try to strike a compromise? Say you'll be making an announcement on Facebook at the end of your first trimester, and that MIL's welcome to tell her own family in the next few weeks, but you won't be keeping it a secret all the way through the wedding? (Though I don't think it's reasonable to expect your fiance not to talk to his own sister.) I get that it's hard for older people to adjust to changing times, but obviously you haven't done anything wrong and it's your life and your call. At the same time, if you can appear to be magnanimous to some extent, that might save you some family drama during a time when you'll have plenty of other things to worry about. I guess see where things stand in a few days and if the in-laws have come around at all by then.

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