Feeling what my ex is feeling?

I’m not looking to dismiss your experience. Whether or not what you are feeling is that he will reach out if given time, please don’t do things “until” he comes back. I say this as I’m going through the same right now. Coming out of a relationship that seemed to end abruptly and without closure; one where I know we mirrored each other and I could feel physical symptoms when he was experiencing something and often felt like he could sense my feelings before I figured them out myself. I know where you’re coming from. I’ve had similar moments, but then I remember that it has to be me first, and I have to want the option to say no even if he were to come back. It’s important at the end of the day to remember that having no attachment to the outcome is the best approach, because people have free will, and in case he changes his mind about returning to you, you want to have the lessons and growth you gained for your relationship for YOU, not for him. That way it won’t feel like you’ve been playing a waiting game (which can be painful at moments), or doing things in vain. Make sure that you’re able to un-attach to the extent that his energy is not guiding your decisions, that they are coming from your own intuition and for your highest good. Then, “lo que sera sera”.

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