Fellow comrades, what are the most obvious signs from women that you have missed and after a while you realised you were so dumb?

Female friend I went to high school with and lived down the street from got her first apartment. She invited me over to hang out, drink beer and crash on the couch in her living room.

We went for a late night walk and then got back and started drinking while watching TV. She got up to get another beer and asked me if I wanted one, I said yes. As she was getting our beers, she blurted out "FUCK ME!"

I thought maybe she hurt her hand opening the bottle or something, but she just went "ugh, never mind!" after I asked her if she was okay. She sat back down and acted like nothing happened. We eventually got tired and went to bed.

I found out later through a mutual friend that she was really into me and was hoping that our night would have gone much differently. I was pissed when I found that out because we generally trusted each other to talk about just about anything. I had slept over at her house for parties and stuff before.

If she wanted to make her move, she could have made it. She was just chicken. She had dated people I knew in the past, so while I thought she was hot, I really only saw her as a friend.

No idea what she was thinking. She should've known I was too oblivious to make the first move. I honestly thought we were just celebrating her new apartment.

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