195k a year in NYC isn't that much.

Men's fertility begins to decline in the late 30s, the same as women. The quality of the sperm goes down, and the sperm count lowers. Many conditions, such as autism, are more common in children of older fathers. Sperm is more likely to contain mutations in an older man, which can increase the likelihood of miscarriage due to chromosomal abnormalities. Conditions such as achondroplasia, the most common type of dwarfism, are usually caused by new mutations, in the sperm of the father. This is because achondroplasia is a dominant condition.

The women in my family tend to be fertile well into their 40s without intervention. We also age well and live longer.

As a woman I not only have skills in traditionally female areas, but I also have skills in areas that were traditionally male.

Being in my thirties I have no trouble finding men who are interested.