She mentions all these studies, that says SHE has looked at them and claims they are flat out wrong. Which studies?

Fair point. When she mentions these studies she should link to them. I guess they are going for the more casual feel for their videos?

She continues to talk about the pay gap studies and doesn't mention the domestic violence ones or any of the others

Well I'm fairly this video was really only meant to be about the wage gap. she has others talking about many other things.

She needs to point us to what she is actually looking at or her words are meaningless. Or she needs to point us to a study of her own

Well, not exactly. A lot of what she said really doesn't need a study behind it to be credible, Just a bit of common sense and a bit of experience in the world.

for example:

Women physicians are far more likely to take long leaves of absence, usually to start a family

I don't know about you but I know quite a few women who have done just this, more so than men.

If an employer could get away with paying women less for the exact same work, why would employers hire men?

Don't be afraid to accept small empirically evidenced facts like these. They don't necessarily discredit anything and can point in the right direction towards the real issue.

By the way, I'm whats called an equalist, we (or I, I have no Idea if the word is already in use by some other group and I just came up with it tonight) believe that both non-radical feminists and non-radical MRAs or anti-feminists truly want the same thing and are only butting heads because of the gender specific names that their groups have. That's why I identify with the more gender neutral term "Equalist". Anyhoo, I gotta get to bed.