I'm male. I'm not a feminist, but I lurk on here. Morality and legality are two distinct concepts. However, in your case, it gives notion that a certain group of individuals require restraint, women committing abortions in this case.

If the answer becomes something along the lines of, "when abortion becomes a matter about convenience, it's immoral because potential AND actual human life are affected (which they are, the woman being actual, the embryo/fetus/etc being potential)" then I'd say why the need to place restraint on convenience here? What makes abortions that are committed within a context of convenience immoral?

However, if you were to drop the notion that people need restraint here, you'd see it's no longer a moral issue.

So, what are we discussing?