For crying out loud.
Here is the largest set of meta analyses on domestic violence by The Partner Abuse State of Knowledge Project (PASK). Researchers were asked to conduct a formal search for published, peer-reviewed studies through standard, widely-used search programs, and then catalogue and summarize all known research studies relevant to each major topic and its sub-topics. Approximately 12,000 studies were considered and more than 1,700 were summarized and organized into tables.
Among the key findings were:
And before you say that even though women initiate violence more than men do in relationships, that women are still more often the victims of partner violence because their reasons for hitting are different than men's - I direct you to these quotes from my source:
https://domesticviolenceresearch.org
So what it shows is that approximately half of domestic violence is reciprocal violence where both partners abuse each other, and women are more likely to initiate this kind of violence. And in cases of non-reciprocal violence where the violence is unilaterally perpetrated by one partner against the other, female violence towards men is actually more common than male violence against women.
This meta-analysis takes into account the results of thousands of studies, assessing the results of previous research to derive conclusions about that body of research at large. In short, it is essentially evidence that bulldozes any single study on the topic.
So your idea that "domestic violence is primarily perpetrated by men against women"? Yeah, it's highly contestable.